i totally agree with what have been said here. jsut wanted to add somehting fomr my short life experience

KEEP IN MIND Guys/Ladies!!

it`s a preson in distress we are talking to!
i complately agree that You took it the wrong way...they were NOT making a joke of you dear..the joke is more about themsleves...

BUT! a person in her situation is MORE likely to get hurt even for nonsense and we are here TO GIVE HER SUPPORT NOT to hurt her!

she probably had enough and was brave enough (like many others on this msg board) to be vurnarable to us and sinsere about her problem!

so let`s respect her and be careful with what we say.

i know that the joke was nonsense, but it`s all considering the case, isn`t it?

hugs