If they've already denied you multiple times, they aren't going to suddenly ask you out when they want to date you-- because they don't want to date you. That's why they said no. Would you like it if a guy who you said "no" to kept asking and asking and chastising you for not dating them? Or would it upset you that they didn't respect your "no"? If you want to find someone to date, you should accept it when a guy says no and leave them alone. Wait for a guy who will enthusiastically say yes-- or even ask you first!

While no one is telling you to change your personality or core values, it might be worth considering self-improvements like getting a job or having hobbies in order to live a more fulfilling life so you are not as dependent on guys for your emotional and physical needs. You will probably attract more men if you are a happier person who has things going on your life. I'm not saying this is right or wrong, but most people do have a few "musts" when it comes to dating and having a job (or means of self-support) is a pretty common one. So your pool right now is probably small so it's harder to date.