how was what i said bigoted ignorance? i was defending men. did you even read what i said?

cyran0 got it right - we need to face it as a culture and not tell men that they cant cry, they cant be emotional, they cant be close to their kids - those are all things we, as a society, tell them.

Society has some jacked up ideals though - take, for instance, the family. most people see a wife, father, 2 kids and a family pet. but how many people actually came from that background? and in the past it was the same. people have never, normally, come from that. but thats what society sees as the family.

and im trying to change my view on men but its so hard when all i hear all day is judging women, calling them too fat or too ugly. You realize how hard it is to feel good about yourself when men idolize women who are fake and photoshopped? and how hard it is to see good men out there when that's what youre surrounded by?

so please dont label me as ignorant when you obviously didnt read what i said. I was trying to help you out from a woman's perspective.