You know for me, I am still single, BUT I have a best friend who used to be my boyfriend. In my heart of hearts I feel he is the "one"

I think it takes time and effort to truly know you love someone. Reliability and support is a MAJOR factor here because he is someone I have always been able to count on no matter WHAT. Some would say, "oh well he is just a good friend" but its more than that. We talk for hours every single night for the past SIX YEARS!!!! We also talk sometimes in the afternoon when he is on his way home from work. He has been my rock, my ace in the hole, and even though I have dated others since our breakup, I feel myself still loving him and drawn to him.

I truly believe he is the "one" I will grow old with and be with forever. Maybe not right now, because I want to take things slow and not sully the friendship, but maybe in a few more years when I am out of debt and I have a few years in with this new job. Maturity about knowing what you want does come with age and time put in, and that is something you will come to find out.

Good luck!