Maybe I'm just dumb and this is normal. Is it normal for someone's "dad" to say he is gonna beat your head into the wall, calling you r*tard, fat, f*ggot, ugly, worthless unimportant, go hurt yourself whenever he gets angry. Yet no one else in your family sticks up for you when the idiot calls you names, throws things at you, threatens and tries to hurt you? He does this every time he gets a bipolar episode.