No I'm not hurting anyone or anything. It's just based on what science knows our turn ons are basically permanent after puberty and I feel like my fetish turns me on too much. Like sure I like other things but my particular kink is an even bigger turn on. I think acceptance will help in the long run, ie me just accepting that it's a big turn on and incorporating it into my life somehow so that it doesn't make me anxious anymore. Again I think I mentioned previously in this thread that I have OCD and it's an ongoing battle to deal with. Most of my OCD revolves around responsibility and morality so learning to accept that I have a kink will be tough but doable I think. Basically a lot of the issue is my OCD telling me that I am sexually abnormal for being so into a particular article of lingerie and comparing myself to others who only like a great personality, or only like sex in the missionary position 3 times a week etc