Online dating involves self-advertisement basically - showing off the good things about you, both in appearance and personal qualities.

I saw one thread where you posted 4 pictures of yourself...3 of them were unflattering selfies, and one was a nice enough picture, but not very close up. So I must be missing these amazing photos that you're taking. Not trying to sound harsh, but with online dating, a good picture can truly make a difference.

Now onto your good personal qualities. What do you have to offer to someone in a relationship? I have seen some great replies from people so I probably won't be saying anything new, but here goes. You're 29 years old, jobless from what I can see, and live with your mother. I don't know why you still live at home or don't have a job, maybe you can't work, who knows? But the reality of it is, when looking for a new relationship, most people don't want someone still living with mommy and not working at all. It just isn't appealing.

If you came across a man's profile and he had the same thing (29, living with mom, not working) then he probably wouldn't seem like the best catch to you. Add on top of that a desperate personality and coming on really strong, and you have someone that will make others run in the other direction. That, unfortunately, is how you're coming across and it does come off as kind of scary, as well as sad.

Work on yourself first. And if you refuse to do that, then your dating profile will probably stay the same and you will continue to scare people off with an abrasive personality. It may sound harsh, but it's the truth. Good luck to you.