I tried to reply earlier, but the internet ate my response...try try again.

It's important to realize that no one is ever perfect......the issue is more of being out of BALANCE with the world around you. Perfection will never happen, but we have to look at the people & things around us & because they can't be changed, we have to look at ourselves to see what isn't working. Little changes here & there are a constant part of life (I know...at 54 years, there have been lots of them).

We have to look honestly at the world around us & not blame it....but not blame ourselves either because then we get stuck....but analize & then try to figure out what change it will take to bring our relation back to balance or if we want to even continue with the ralation (person or thing or whatever).

It's constant work to balance ourselves with the world around us....that is part of growing & existing in this world,
Debbie