Since I have recieved so much advice from various people online, family, friends etc. I am a bit confused as to how the proper or right way to date in today's time goes.
So here is my layout of how my situations have played out.
I am on a dating website or app, find a guy to my liking, I read his profile and see his photos, then message him, it could be as short as "Hey How are you? What's up?" or as long as "Hello, I came across your profile and really like how you don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, neither do I. I also see you and I share a lot of the same interests, what types of music and movies do you like?"
And after messaging them they will view my profile, and not respond back. OR they view my profile, and do send me a reply, and from there we talk throughout the day, into the evening, and come the next day they end up disappearing and I never hear from them again.
OR we talk throughout the day and night, and the next day I wake up to a message from them saying "Morning how are you?" and we talk all day and night again, and then the following day it dies out.
OR I will receive a message from the guy, and we talk and hit it off and then it dies out. In any case. Which is the best way to go with online dating.
Should the girl wait for the guy to message them on these sites or apps
Should the girl go and message the guy and talk to him
Should the girl go and ask the guy out on a date
Should the girl wait and have the guy ask her out on a date
Who should pay for the date?
Should the girl chase the guy?
Should the girl let the guy chase her?
What is the right thing to do?
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