the first question I have is, Do you have insurance? If yes, many companies have web sites where you can search for a doctor who has experience with ADD. If you don't have insurance, there are still ways to find people experienced with ADD. Just make sure they are qualified to help you with other things too.

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My husband doesn’t understand the way I am, he thinks if I try harder or pay attention more etc. that I can get better

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I think we may be married to the same guy. Mine hasn't actually said this exactly, but I know how he thinks due to his behavior. We can be having a conversation, and 5 minutes into it I have no clue what he said. I usually have to tell him that I didn't hear a word he said. I find it amazing that I can look like I am listening to every word and not hear a thing. He also hates clutter and cannot understand how I manage to create so much. He actually nicknamed me "the tornado".

Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing.
Deb (emwell)