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Old Nov 09, 2007, 02:52 PM
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Causing problems is because we are not in tune with the world around us.....so you need to STOP!!!! Look at the problems. Decide what is was that caused them. Make changes where you can to fix the problems. Or decide to walk away from the situation that was a problem but learn from it & not do in again in another similar situation.

Like we said, only you can make the necessary changes to stop causing problems because we have no control of the world around us. We can determine is the problem wasn't important to us & do nothing about it or we can determine that the problem was meaningful to us & take the action necessary to stop the problem in the future.

Sure it take work on our part....the world doesn't revolve around us.....we exist in the world around us as a package deal & as such, we have to be in balance with it....otherwise problems will continue to pleague us.

You can stop causing the problems.....but it is something that takes action...not just words.
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