Been that someone that I always dreamt of. If I had to pick one thing then it would be using safe touch with me alongside being someone safe to talk to. I never had either of these things when I needed them and now I have both. The deep longing is not out of control because it has a place of nurture. It knows it can get what it needs. I know I can get what I need, if I can see clearly enough to remember this and ask for it or indicate it.

The best thing my T has done for me is to be what I need, when I need it (again, when I actually let her know, that is).