Yes I'm seeing the responses. I'm venting so not really sure what I need to respond to. I just think it's wrong of him to decide that his ex should look at his resume rather than me. What must she think of me?? He asks her to look at his resume rather than his wife, he asks her to take his daughter shopping because she has such great fashion sense over his wife. She must be on a high pedastel thinking how great he still thinks she is and probably wonders if he even tells me any of this stuff. Because when I see his responses to her there is never a mention of me. No mention that I looked it over first, never a mention of "us" being out just "him", just a mention of "him" taking a vacation, but not with me, even though I'm there.