I agree with you... half of the time. As you know, with bipolar disorder, we sometimes aren't just moody but we truly feel differently about the same things or the same people at different times. The other night when he accidentally told the new girlfriend he was at his boyfriend's house and was kind of all over me, or when he asks really sexually explicit questions, I think yea, he's really into this. But then he won't do things when I ask him to hang out. When we do hang out it's on his terms. I think it's about his confusion and it's all going to be on his terms which I'm not used to and the sad/scary thing is, I start trying to think up ways to "trick" him into hanging out.