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Originally Posted by divine1966
Rule #1.
Well no professionally or otherwise employed men with hobbies and interests will be texting all day and night as it would mean they are either unemployed or don't value their job or have no life. So the ones that talk all day and night are most likely do it out of boredom, not because they are interested.
Also when you text all day and night you pretty much send a message that you have no life and no job and no friends and no serious obligations. You also send a message that you are desperate and needy. That's a turn off.
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I agree with Divine.
I actually just stated dating someone who I met online. We text back and forth only in the evening, after we are both home from work, probably for about an hour or so. If she pestered me with texts throughout the day, I would find that incredibly annoying since, when I'm at work, I'm busy!
Half the time I initiate our conversations, half the time she does.
We live in different states, but she travels for work. After talking once each evening for 4 days, she asked me out on a date. I said yes, and she arranged her schedule so she could meet me in conjunction with a business trip.
From here on out, we will probably take turns visiting each other.
Everything is very mutual. No one has to chase because no one is running away. Everything has felt very easy and very natural.