When he says he's happy as he is, what he's really saying is that he's happy not changing anything because he's getting his needs met. But for a healthy relationship both parts must get there needs met, that means he has to do his part. Let the hospital meet his needs. I bet Tisha is right, he'll quickly find someone else to meet his needs. He seems very selfish, thinking only of himself.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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