what is the difference between a victim and a survivor? I cant focus on this question, your story is similar to mine jeffetele, my parent had me and mum never loved dad, she abused me emotionally and occasionally sexually, dad was indifferent and he too could be a bully, he threw a wooden clog type thing at my head once because he was angry with my mother.

I supose I ama survivor cos I'm still here, tips on trying to heal would be gratefully received, I am in therapy.

Jinny xx