i think we all kind of think about our mortality when we hit 40 or 50......60 i dont know about yet.....i dont really feel pressure at all at home, its the women that hit on me when im out that i feel pressure from.....ha

a suggestion i would have is maybe rubbing his back or a massage and then when he relaxes seeing where it may lead....it may lead nowhere as far a lovemaking goes, but it is a good feeling to get one and to give one.