Some days, it's just not going to happen; other days, I am so turned on that a random thought can make me have a spontaneous orgasm; and I can be anywhere between these two extremes on any given day. I don't question why, just assume that the stars have to be aligned correctly or something. And what I like this week may be different next week. I have been diagnosed with a mood disorder--perhaps it all has to do with my moods and not the stars. I like to think that sexual excitement has a mystical sort of quality that feels best when we enjoy it as it comes. I am truly grateful for the weeks where I am having a lot of orgasms--don't they feel great!