"Work shy" that's a good one! My grandpa used to say "Too light for heavy work, and too heavy for light work". Why should he work? Sure, because he found a woman willing to work for him! Thank you for giving this man a dose of reality.

I'm glad you are feeling good and empowered now. His lobbying all your family to try to turn them against you is really low of him. I'm glad it didn't work.