The first biggest thing is that she agreed to restrain from excessive positivity, which I know has taken effort since that's her main orientation. Other things she's done that rank high is reading books I bring (non-therapy), providing support between sessions when things flare up, accepting things about me that other therapists have rejected, offering calming down walks, never saying no to any request (so far), and being consistent and kind...there's more. It's hard to pick one thing.