I am surprised you would have said something like that even after the advice people here gave you. It makes me wonder what you would have said without that advice. Hard to believe you could have been more unhinged/rude. Which probably means you don't have the patience and discipline to follow advice or to do what you know is best.

Then again, being reserved and composed is something I find attractive. Maybe others are different.

From a game-theory perspective, you venting your frustration/lack of success with other males at him, that is extremely counter-productive. You basically suggested to him that maybe it is best to do what all those other guys did. You told him all other guys ran away, and he now may know why. They can't all be wrong? Right?