Id quit the marriage counselor it seems that she can not be objective. I don't see it as selfish to be wanting to be treated with respect. I also don't see that you have anything to feel guilty for.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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