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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
1: Dont date potential.
In other words, date someone you want as is, dont settle for someone with the potential to be the kind of partner you need.
2: Love alone is never enough.
3: It is never healthy to be, or make someone else, your "everything", balance is key.
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Thank for this trippin2.0!
I still haven't ever been able to conquer my distortions on 2. and 3.... I am a hopeless romantic, I really believe in love
*sigh*
What I have learned in almost all my life relationships is mostly fairly negative unfortunately
But I have learned to always strive to communicate from a place of love and kindness. Oh course we all have bad days and triggers that catch us off guard. This is unavoidable sometimes. But once you realize you reacted poorly....apologize for your tone/ response..hurt feelings and anger left on addressed will only lead to a slow build up of resentment.
You can't do anything about how another person acts..so the best you can do is be able to feel good about your own behaviour. Kindness will leave you with fair less weighted regrets than spite.
That's what I strive for unfortunately many people seem to be color blind to a true good heart.
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