I do some animal rescue and many people I have met through that seem to be pretty judgemental. It seems to be a contest to show that they way they do things is superior.

One neighbor friend gets like this. For example, some other neighbors on our street adopted a rescue dog recently and right away she was going on about how she thought they wouldn't take care of him well. In fact, from what I have seen so far, their dog is better cared for than her dogs. They are always out playing with him, and I ran into a vet we know that does house calls leaving their house a few days after he arrived. He was giving him a check-up and vaccines.

Another person I know in the dog rescue world has also done what you mention in your last post. She doesn't have the resources to be fully responsible for the dogs she rescues. So, I have seen where others have had to pick up the slack. She's also used some clinics to board the dogs and then has walked out on the bill.

It is annoying, I agree. The best you can to is try to not pay attention to her. You clearly have the best interests of the dog at heart. I hope he continues to progress and finds a forever home soon.