the t accused YOU of there being a shift in your session, when it was HER cell phone that caused it? That's just deplorable. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. I only see my t's phone when she goes and gets it when I need to pay with my HSA card in her square reader thingy. It's never out during a session (I don't pay her until at the end). I don't think you're being childish at all wanting the full attention from her. That you are paying for, for heaven's sake. That's part of what we are paying for - for the t to be present with us during that 50 minutes. And the nail file thing? For the love of Pete! I would probably say in a snooty voice "Gee I'm sorry I'm boring you" and get up and walk out without paying. I cannot fathom my t acting that way. Sending you safe hugs and I hope you can find a way to get away from this t.