My past online and real life relationships taught me how valuable it is to say how we feel, especially when we face any experiences we don't like, big and small. I believe it is so important to express to our partners and lovers and friends whatever it is we feel and desire, whenever we find the courage to. I learnt the hard way what its like to hide your true feelings covered up by things like (and that are equally as valid and need working through) priorities and preferences and fears, only to have it come out down the track and ruin the relationship.