My StepDad was the only one in my family still speaking to me, until my sister in law told him lots of lies about me. He took her at her word and emailed a really nasty rant about how I am just a lazy B.... and doesnt believe my severe ME makes me so disabled. It was filled with untrue accusations that really hurt, but he ended it saying he didnt want anything more to do with me. I didnt address any of it to defend myself, but now he has sent a xmas card saying he hopes I am getting better. I am torn between ignoring it out of anger, and taking the opportunuity to tell him the truth. Confused about whether I even want someone so destructive back in contact even though I am completely alone. Any advice welcome...!