If you do you have bpd and you aren't diagnosed correctly, in my opinion you aren't getting the help you need. No one wants a bpd diagnosis for the hell of it but I sure as **** didn't get the proper help until I had the proper diagnosis. Specifically DBT. I see this all the time on this forum people questioning someone wanting the bpd diagnosis and stating it's just a label and a ****** one at that but if your being treated for bipolar when you're really bpd you're not getting the right treatment. Get a second opinion and not from anyone here we're not doctors go to a psychotherapist they are the bpd masters.