Why do I suddenly feel like telling T about my transference will end negatively for me now I honestly, honestly, don't want her to refer me. I have remained dormant with acting out my feelings in therapy, so I don't see how I am a harm to the relationship :/ Nevertheless, I sort of feel she will think it means we can no longer work together, temporary break from each other to see another T, etc. might happen I don't even have active fantasies about this woman really. Its fairly manageable, I just NEED to get it out there and find out what it means for me though, hence I need to tell her. :/ Damn I need advice with situations exactly like mine (past erotic transference, but not ever having acted them out).