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Originally Posted by CrispApple
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I am not into blaming the client,but if this is the 4 th time being abandoned by a therapist,then I feel that is what needs to be addressed.Is the OP crossing boundaries,demanding more than they are willing to give,is she controlling,manipulative?This is in no way a put down,it's just something that needs to be looked at and taken into consideration. . .
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I don't get it. Who needs to look at this and take it into consideration? Do you? And if so, why?
If this is the 4th time being abandoned by a therapist and none of them have addressed this client's issues effectively -- who's "fault" is that? No matter what issues the client comes into therapy with, if she is in therapy with a therapist for 6 years and those haven't been resolved -- who's "fault" is that? And if the NHS decides it is a client issue, are they prepared to offer some therapy which might be effective at getting at the core of her issues and resolving them?
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Originally Posted by CrispApple
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I am sorry,but this,to me,raises a huge red flag
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Well, I find that as time goes by I just want this man to face severe disciplinary action or be struck off. He would have to grovel big time if we meet for me to forgive him for the **** and pain he has put me through. He did not care to give one minute of thought to the pain and anguish he knew he would be landing on my head. For that he deserves to rot in hell. He is actually a weak and spineless person, that was evident all the way along. And not very bright to boot.
He can't be very bright if he can't work out which is best for him: either grovel in some closure sessions or lose my job as a psychologist as this client knows every single rule infringement I have done and will happily tell all.
Not the brightest bulb in the pack
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Does that not sound like revenge seeking behavior to anyone else?It sure does to me. |
What does revenge-seeking behavior indicate to you? Is that something which you feel is "wrong" somehow?