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Originally Posted by Waterbear
Sounds to me like she is insecure about her bf. Not wanting to discuss it, show you a picture but tells you he is good looking, essentially. Maybe he isn't and she is embarrassed. Whatever it is this definitely sounds like her stuff and not yours. You see to think in many respects that she is a good T and has been good for you so maybe a slip up isn't all that bad. It isn't right but it might not be the end of the world, or of the relationship. I hope that she responds in a better manner than she did in your session.
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Thank you, Waterbear. I don't think my T is insecure about her bf. She wants to keep his identity out of my therapy as it's not relevant to our work together, and that's her right. In my email I took responsibility for how the session went but I wrote how I felt frozen and incapable of speaking after she redirected me so abruptly. She will probably apologize but I don't think she will admit to have handled the situation wrong. She was trying to make the session productive instead of going over old tapes about wanting to be in her life.