Im a little confused.
Were the questions you were reading that she did not want to hear questions you'd journaled asking yourself why you wanted to know about T's BF. Like " i am asking myself if i want to know because i am still mourning my marriage"

Or were they questions about the BF, like "what does he look like"?

I wasn't sure from the OP and i guess to me my judgement of T's decisions is pretty dependant on what the questions actually were.