Well i found my relationship pattern in this article, reenactment based on rigid defenses, the 2nd example of getting involved with losers who you know up front cant give you what you want.

Good if long article. Maybe we can start some threads based on it. Im still reading it but i wanted to post before we got too far past it. It quotes henry krystal, who is one of my favorite ts, who passed recently. It really fleshes out reenactment. Thanks skies.