Your t may well be the boss of her private practice bug she is not the boss of you. You are her boss. Do you feel this is working for you because it would not work for me. Would you have enough self support to tell her everything you have said here?
It sounds as though you are very vulnerable and fragile right now and especially being sober for a while so I can see why you need your ts support do much right now. I think her behaviour is instilling a belief that you don't matter. You do absolutely matter and so does your t matter. Your feelings matter. As a matter of interest, how is your therapy being therapeutic to you?