I read your other post about his girlfriend doing his resume. Your marriage has big problems. It's going to hit the fan eventually.

You have his debt with or without him. Other people don't think about you or care about you (even your own mother) as much as you think. They will handle anything that happens.

You are stressed out with him, getting rid of him won't be any more stressful.

I have had a marriage with some big problems, but we have raised three kids together, plus he is a great man and father.

What is good about your husband? What does he do to enrich your life?