He maybe needs to change but you can't make people change. You either have to accept it or leave. Whatever you doing isn't working.

As about your particular issue I have hard time relating as I barely ever want sex as I hit menopause. I need affection but sex I can live without. Plus I work too much. My husband wants it all the time though regardless how tired he is.

But anyways. Do you have fulfilling career or hobbies? Maybe go to school? Take a class? Take focus of your marriage and sex