I've been attacked some on mine, too--especially by new people who don't know the whole story, like regarding my marriage counselor. And people have attacked him, too (perhaps deservedly, at times...). I appreciate the posters who can provide their opinion without attacking or acting like they're the one and only authority on things or somehow know everything about my situation and life. It can help to read dissenting viewpoints because they can help me see things in a different light. But attacks aren't helpful... And I greatly appreciate the posters who have come to my defense or just offered support, particularly on a recent thread. Not to hijack, but even though we're just anonymous posters on a forum, I think of some of you as my friends. (And you're one of them, Rainbow.)