Thanks Bill...he thinks his schedule is perfectly fine.
His 89 year old Mom has a Dr. appt today which he will get up and take her because he loves her to death. BUT, he thinks I am going with them.

I just composed a note that says....Your Moms clothes are done and in your truck.
and since my resting time has been SERIOUSLY impacted I will be staying home today.

I don't know how he will handle THAT...but I'm going to try and get stuff done like her laundry and then make myself a hot breakfast and try to lay down now that i know he is sleeping and won't bother me.

The only problem is..he told his Mother to call here at 9...9:30 and to keep calling till he answers. She and I have a good relationship but I leave their activity planning up to him because I have been hurt in the past...and so the frigin phone will be ringing and ringing and then when I finally bring it to him...I will be agitated all over again..and unable to sleep at THAT time either like I planned...LOL...its a total joke...really.

Thank you for responding to my post.