What do you guys think of .....shaving "down there"?? Or is it just trim and go kinda thing....Some people say no way and others say sure why not

personally I never really thought about it...but when my bf (now my x) got together he really liked me shaved and smooth now that I am not with him...it really doesnt matter to me which way to go...I like both....but i dont want to be gross out the opposite sex with either action when the time comes...so how do you know what to do????