Do you not get things written down by your Therapist? Do they not make a summary of the session and establish an agenda for the next? I just assumed this is what every Therapist did for their clients.

Apparently this isn't happening then. However, are you able to request that your Therapist might do this? What if you were to keep your own notes; if not during the sessions, immediately following.

It seems to me that possibly too much time is being spent at a session going over what happened at the last.