Usually I feel you have to take action when it comes to gift giving. You have to give gifts if you want gifts. If you don't get any gifts then that's okay. I notice people usually got me gifts pretty quick after I got them gifts. Like when I got my sister a gift card to starbucks and the next day she got me a bottle of rum.

I find you have to make Christmas what you want.

Can't really expect other people to do so for you.