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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Just one thing though, Mona. In the beginning of the session T said she wasn't going to show me his picture, even before I started reading my journal. It was near the end of the session after I said it just seems natural for me to want to see, that she made her comment about GC. So she reversed herself but was firm on not showing me a photo. I may have asked if he was cute. I don't think my T wants me to not feelings about her and her bf. She just wanted to bring it back to my life not hers.
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That's different then, I am not criticising your t rainbow, just trying to understand how it was for you and your t. I really think she didn't mean to make you jealous and that sometimes she doesn't realise how intense your feelings are for her. They are both intense and painful Rainbow and they are what they are. I think she was tryouts my to protect you by mistake y showing you the photo and to keep her life out of your therapy which seems like a really good thing to donut I know from experience with my own t that once they disclose something about their personal relationships it does become confusing, I yearned to know more about it but the more I knew the more it hurt. It's a curious paradox. I still think you and your t do really great work together and she does show her heart man side which is very congruent but confusing