Yea, the more I think about it, I wonder if I am making way to much of it all! Perhaps this is why you flip flop too. Maybe he has bad days, I have bad (and off my rocker crazy) days. Maybe I should move on about all this stuff and just get a life (ie: find more work, get some other hobbies) instead of psychoanalyzing my relationship? I think I'm going to go read my novel (NOT the one about abuse) now.......