That's the thing though, when 1 month guy dated from August to September and we were talking for the first time, BEFORE we met, he would text me everyday, even with his busy work schedule, he would make time for me, he would talk to me, he would show me he is interested in me.

Then after we met it kept going and then slowly died down, a tad but we would still talk and dated during that 1 month time frame.

Don't you see my point of how I am saying that this guy did show me interest, by him texting me, calling, me, etc. When a guy does not do that, and just doesn't talk to me for a week or 2 weeks or whatever length, that shows me he isn't interested.

Or if I message him and he doesn't reply until weeks later that tells me he isn't interested. That's the experiences I am getting from guys and it hurts.