Thank you all for your kind words. I really do appreciate it very much.
I have come into some more information that completely explains his behaviors and the reason he left so quickly even though he still loved me.
His ex gf is a narcissist and he is a codependent who jumped every time she crooked her little finger at him. My spidey sense believes she called him on his birthday Nov 14 because he was very odd by Thanksgiving and after.
Anyway, I had been querying the wrong question on google before, when I googled this dynamic, it COMPLETELY explained his behaviors that I kept talking about from the beginning. I got the information before I went to google, this isn't an assumption.
I really thought I wanted him back but now, I'm not so sure. He's going to be even further damaged by her when she dumps him yet again. With my bipolar and anxiety issues, I just dont think I can deal with a man who is an abuse survivor with ptsd.
Not sure what to think at the moment.
other than it breaks my heart to know she's going to hurt him again.