When I come undone it feels way, way, way too loose.
It feels undone at the seams.
It feels out of control.
It feels too big and overwhelming.
It feels like I am lost at sea and cannot find myself.
It feels like I can't get a foothold on anything.
It feels like all the fragments of me are slipping through my fingers and I am left with nothing.
It feels like I am drowning.
It feels like I have drowned.

TR, the bigger question is, what does it feel like when you feel undone?