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I feel both hurt and sad about what my T said to me and how she treated me in the last session before Christmas. She said several things that I see as inappropriate and hurting.
1. She said my behaviour is anally and like "in need of taking a ****" that is she thinks Iīm too rigid or something like that.
2. She refers to other clients and says they work with free associations in other therapies as a way of telling me that I donīt use free associations.
3. She kind of mock me around me wanting to be able to feel a bit of luxury from time to time, that I feel itīs important to strive forward and to be able to buy for example more expensive coffee. She said "canīt you invite your friends for coffee and bisquits, must it be coffee and a seven layer cake?". Iīve never mentioned there has to be a cake.
4. She talks about humour and how thatīs important in therapy.
5. She mentions several similar gibes.
I feel it has come to be more and more about pointing out my personality or my way of being as a reason why she canīt work as she wants in therapy.
What do you others think?
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