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Originally Posted by Imalooney
Maybe letting it out helps a bit..
People preach about supporting each other on this site..ok....perhaps letting her vent is the ****ing support she wants/needs...
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I'm not so inclined to agree. Certainly this isn't always the case. In my opinion wishing to vent suggests one is looking for validation. Validation isn't always warranted. Sometimes, validation only encourages an act or behavior that is self-destructive.
I disagree frequently around here I realize. I don't speak my mind flagrantly. I do so when I feel it is important that all views - even when they might be difficult - are important to the discussion. This is not to be hurtful rather an effort to look at the whole picture and offer constructive criticism when neccessary.