Honestly I think you are quite rigid in your approach to therapy - you don't like the way she works, but you keep going and keep picking holes in how she works, like it's your mission to get her to do it differently regardless of her training etc.

You may not like the way she phrased things - and possibly you have a more literal way of approaching communication but what I hear her saying is that you're all or nothing, there's little wiggle room with you. Which is fair material for therapy but she may not be the right person for you given how unhappy you seem to be with her.